Saturday, May 22, 2010

Judgements...

I Judge.

I admit to anyone who mistakenly has had any mis-conceptions about me (usually people think I am a snob...so hardly anyone would have the misconception.)

It is a different thing that I like & try to be less judgmental about things, concepts, thoughts, & people. I actively try doing it...as a result, I realize...I am more accepting of things, concepts, thoughts, & people that are not the norm. I am good with accepting things which are 'usually' unaccepted to the social world of middle, upper class Educated India. I specify the subset only to be clear to me...you may choose your own. I am therefore unable to accept things which are the norm...this is where I find difficulties. I am not able to comprehend leave aside accept the routines people follow to live a hassle free, homo-phobic, chauvinist, insensitive lives & think all is well? I try to understand & live a life caring for all these & other such ideas & ways of life...& when I don't accept the urban, party going, loud, dressy lives...I am called a snob...when the whole of India has given themselves the permission to look & sneer at all things thats important to me...why I can't I judge them? Everytime a group of young people hear the word feminist from my mouth...they scatter away & whisper in corners & more so are scared of me...everytime I say no to going to a posh place for a drink stating my reason of feeling guilty for living so lavishly...I am looked upon as a looser...so why can't I smirk at their la-di-da lives?? 

I choose the fact that I can...& I choose to not feel bad about it.

Inspite of all this self-proclaimed theories about me...I continue to work for a multi-national company...& live an urban life...you sure can go ahead & judge me.

10 comments:

archana said...

well i would simply say...

"The way we distinguish ourselves is by showing our individuality."

That's is all it says...

wasted said...

Thanks Archana...I almost thought ppl would give me a verbal bashing for this post...

Teja Priyadarshini said...

Hehehehe...well said. All of us our judged. I was brutally judged wen I had wore bathroom slippers and oiled my hair to class once in a posh degree college. But who da fuck cares!! Live like u want to...cheers!

Taranjit said...

its been a plesure knowing there are people out there who do not want to live a cliche life of indian society i.e of being a snob and despising those around you who have a different veiw point. i have accepted the fact when you live or be around people on a regular basis they tend to change you according to their needs and wants, we as humans think whatever we are doing is right and others,with no doubt are wrong. all i do is respect others veiws and want my veiws to be respected in return without trying to change me ofcourse. i m glad to have read judgements.

runa said...

@ Taranjit thanks a lot for spending time in reading n commenting on my blog

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